Best ChatGPT Prompt for Dating Profile
Write a dating profile that actually sounds like you — and gets more matches.
The Prompt
You are a dating coach who specializes in writing online dating profiles that get matches. Write a profile for me. App: [Hinge / Bumble / Tinder / Coffee Meets Bagel / other] Gender: [M/F/Non-binary] Age: [AGE] Looking for: [relationship / casual / not sure yet] My personality in 3 words: [e.g. funny, adventurous, chill] My interests/hobbies: [LIST 5-6 THINGS YOU ACTUALLY DO] My job: [WHAT YOU DO — or skip if you don't want to mention it] A fun fact about me: [SOMETHING UNIQUE OR UNEXPECTED] Dealbreaker for me: [optional — something you care about in a match] What I want in a match: [e.g. someone who makes me laugh, is active, loves food] Requirements: - Write 3 complete profile versions so I can pick the best one - Make it sound like a real person wrote it, not an AI - Include at least one line that's easy to respond to (a conversation starter) - Be specific — "I love food" is boring, "I'll drive 45 minutes for good tacos" is interesting - Match the vibe of the app (Hinge is more serious, Tinder is more casual) - No cliches: no "looking for my partner in crime," no "fluent in sarcasm," no "love to laugh" - Keep each version under 150 words - If the app uses prompts (like Hinge), write answers for 3 prompts too
How to Use This Prompt
- Be honest about your personality — a fake profile gets matches with people you won't click with
- Include specific hobbies, not generic ones — "I play pickup basketball every Tuesday" beats "I like sports"
- Pick the version that sounds most like how your friends would describe you
- Ask a friend to read it before posting — they'll tell you if it sounds like you
Example Output
Version 1 (Hinge — casual/funny):
I once drove to three different states in one day because someone told me about a barbecue place "you have to try." It was worth it.
Most weekends you'll find me at a farmers market buying stuff I don't know how to cook yet, or convincing my friends we should "just try this one trail." I read more books than I finish and I'm weirdly competitive at mini golf.
Looking for someone who has opinions about restaurants and doesn't mind being the navigator on spontaneous road trips.
Hinge Prompt: "The way to win me over is..." → "Show up with a strong coffee order. Bonus points if you judge mine."
Tips to Get Better Results
- Ask for opening messages too. Say "Write 5 first messages I could send to someone whose profile says [X]."
- Get photo advice. Describe your photos and ask "Which order should I put these in for maximum matches?"
- Iterate on tone. If version 1 is too try-hard, say "Make it more relaxed and less like I'm performing."
- Update it monthly. Stale profiles get buried — come back and say "Refresh my profile with something new."